Prince Joachimof Denmark is breaking his silence on a family decision.
The Danish prince, 53, reacted to his motherQueen Margrethe II’s decision tostrip his four childrenof their prince and princess titles, which the Danish Royal House announced Wednesday.
“We are all very sad. It’s never fun to see your children being mistreated like that,” he told the national newspaperEkstra Bladeton Thursday. “They find themselves in a situation they do not understand.”
“I was given five days' notice,” Joachim added.
The reporter responded that she thought he learned of the Queen’s plans in May, prompting the sixth in line to the throne to explain that wasn’t quite the case.
“In May, I was presented with a plan, which basically stated that when the children each turned 25, it would happen,” Joachim said. “Athena turns 11 in January,” he added of his youngest child.
“How has this affected your relationship with your mother?” the journalist asked.
Holding for a moment, looking emotional, Joachim replied, “I don’t think I need to elaborate here,” and turned to walk away.
Queen Margrethe with Prince Joachim and his family.Patrick van Katwijk/Getty

In a statement toB.T.,another national outlet, the palace insisted that the announcement should not have come as a surprise.
“As the Queen stated yesterday, the decision has been a long time coming. We understand that there are many emotions at stake at the moment, but we hope that the Queen’s wish to future-proof the Royal Palace will be respected,” a spokesperson for the Danish Royal Palace told the outlet.
Doubling down on his argument in his own remarks toB.T., Joachim stated, “I was given five days' notice of this. To tell my children that on New Year’s their identity will be taken from them. I am very, very sorry to see them uncomprehending about what is happening over their heads.”
Princess Marie and Prince Joachim of Denmark.BERTRAND GUAY/AFP via Getty

The father of four — who is dad to sons Nikolai, 23, Felix, 20, and Henrik, 13, and daughter Athena, 10 — added that he’s mystified why everything was accelerated.
“I simply don’t know. I originally asked for time to think and give my feedback. That would also be taken into account,” the Danish royal toldB.T., adding that his kids were having a hard time processing the change.
“I can say that my children are upset. My kids don’t know which leg to stand on,” he said. “What they should believe. Why should their identity be removed? Why must they be punished in that way?”
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In a memo issued Wednesday, the palace announced that Nikolai, Felix, Henrik and Athena would lose their prince/princess styling and “His/Her Highness” titles starting on January 1, 2023. The siblings will be known instead as His Excellency Count of Monpezat or Her Excellency Countess of Monpezat.
The Danish palace also noted that “the Queen’s decision is in line with similar adjustments that other royal houses have made in various ways in recent years,” such as inSwedenthree years ago.
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Denmark’s Queen Margrethe.Tim Rooke/Shutterstock

Prince Joachim shares his two eldest sons with his first wife, Alexandra, Countess of Frederiksborg. He remarried in 2008 to Princess Marie, and they later welcomed Henrik and Athena.

The day the decision was announced, Queen Margrethebriefly took questions from the presson the major change for her grandchildren.
“It is a consideration I have had for quite a long time, and I think it will be good for them in their future. That is the reason,” the 82-year-old monarch said, according toHello! Magazine.
The shakeup does not affect the four children ofCrown Prince Frederik, heir to the throne, and his wife,Crown Princess Mary.
Unlike their cousins,Prince Christian, 16,Princess Isabella, 15, and 11-year-old twinsPrince VincentandPrincess Josephinewill remain part of the royal house.
source: people.com