Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires in March 2023.Photo:VALERIE MACON/AFP via Getty
VALERIE MACON/AFP via Getty
Country starsJason IsbellandAmanda Shiresare going their separate ways.
The documents list the couple’s date of separation as Dec. 3, and cite irreconcilable differences as reason for the split.
Isbell and Shires — who sharedaughter Mercy, 8— have been a musical force together since tying the knot in February 2013; Shires plays fiddle and sings backup for Isbell’s band, the 400 Unit, while he plays guitar for her country supergroup The Highwomen.
The couple’s marital strife was even documented in the 2023 documentaryRunning With Our Eyes Closed, which featured an emotional scene in which Shires read an email she’d sent Isbell about the possibility of marriage counseling.
Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires at the Grammy Awards in 2022.Frazer Harrison/Getty
Frazer Harrison/Getty
“It doesn’t matter if you’re a quasi-famous person like Jason or me, everybody’s relationships are the same; there’s up and downs and there’s good and bad and you just try to deal with it,” shetold PEOPLE in 2022. “Life’s not easy, marriage isn’t easy, but aren’t we lucky to be able to live?”
Isbell, who has been sober since 2012, previously opened up toThe New York Timesin 2020 about how growing pressures during the making ofReunionshad caused him to push everyone in his life away, including his wife.
“At one point, I said, ‘It’d be easier if somebody had cheated.’ Then we could say, ‘You did this,’ or ‘I did this,' and ‘Somebody needs to be real sorry,’” Isbell said. “But it was more like, ‘We don’t know each other right now. We’re not able to speak the same language.’”
Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires.John Shearer/ACMA2021/Getty Images
Shires moved into a hotel for 10 days in 2020 because “lines were getting crossed” and she “needed space,” but the two eventually reconciled.
She covered their marital turbulence from her point of view on the 2022 song “Fault Lines,” tellingNashville Scenethat she and Isbell were experiencing a difficult “disconnect” during the pandemic that she poured into her lyrics.
“All of us have had turmoil within our respective marriages, and it was definitely coming from a place of vulnerability,” Shires told the outlet. “In one word, that’s how I would describe how I picked every song for the record. You have the choice to be vulnerable or not. However you handle yourself, it’s all about choice.”
source: people.com
