Photo: gettyDavid Arquetteis opening up about navigating differing levels of fame in a Hollywood relationship.In an appearance on SiriusXM’sAndy Cohen Live, hostAndy Cohenasked theNever Been Kissedactor whether he felt “inferior to” or “less than” ex-wifeCourteney Coxamid the height of herFriendsfame. (Cox, 58, played Monica Geller on the sitcom for 10 seasons, airing between 1994 and 2004.)“Yeah, absolutely. It’s difficult. … I have some of the traditional male things where I want to like, you know, provide and pick up the check and, you know, be the breadwinner,” Arquette, 51, said.“In the acting world, in general, you’re always going on this roller coaster of popularity and not able to get a job,” he continued. “So it’s like this weird thing. And then, when you’re comparing yourself to someone who’s at the top of the television iconic world, it’s kind of hard to put yourself there.“Arquette said the now-exes “definitely” were “learning and dealing with that” throughout their time together. But there was still “a lot of pain and arguments” as well as “ego” early on.Explaining how the pair navigated the situation, Arquette said: “A lot of it has to do with the way you’re taking things, the way you’re saying things, the way you’re responding to things, the way you’re allowing other, sort of, outside influences affect how you feel about yourself.““I think building confidence or just focusing on yourself, like working out some of the pain and trauma that I had so that I could open up and own sort of what makes me happy, what my needs are, where my boundaries are,” he continued. “But we had a really great thing at the end. I just think a lot of people end up when relationships end and lawyers get involved, they really sort of battle a lot of the time and they end up really fighting and spending a lot of money to lawyers where they should be sort of splitting with each other.“He added, “I just encourage people to truly try to work it out.“S Granitz/WireImageThe twoScreamcostars were married from 1999 to 2013. Despite their separation, Cox and Arquette have managed to forge a friendship whileco-parenting their 18-year-old daughter,Coco.In a 2020 interview withYahoo! Entertainment,Arquette opened up about his “really great relationship” with theCougar Townalum. “We’re friends, and we’ve communicated a lot because of Coco,” he explained.But Arquette admitted that this process hasn’t always been easy, especially when it came to raising Coco in her teenage years.“We’ve just been really open and supportive of each other. We never went head-to-head, [or] battled each other, through the process of divorce and through the process of raising our kid,” he said. “So it’s made for a friendship and relationship that is out of respect.“Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Arquette also shares sonsCharlie West, 9, andAugustus Alexis, 6, with wifeChristina McLarty. Meanwhile, Cox is currently dating Snow Patrol memberJohnny McDaid.
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David Arquetteis opening up about navigating differing levels of fame in a Hollywood relationship.In an appearance on SiriusXM’sAndy Cohen Live, hostAndy Cohenasked theNever Been Kissedactor whether he felt “inferior to” or “less than” ex-wifeCourteney Coxamid the height of herFriendsfame. (Cox, 58, played Monica Geller on the sitcom for 10 seasons, airing between 1994 and 2004.)“Yeah, absolutely. It’s difficult. … I have some of the traditional male things where I want to like, you know, provide and pick up the check and, you know, be the breadwinner,” Arquette, 51, said.“In the acting world, in general, you’re always going on this roller coaster of popularity and not able to get a job,” he continued. “So it’s like this weird thing. And then, when you’re comparing yourself to someone who’s at the top of the television iconic world, it’s kind of hard to put yourself there.“Arquette said the now-exes “definitely” were “learning and dealing with that” throughout their time together. But there was still “a lot of pain and arguments” as well as “ego” early on.Explaining how the pair navigated the situation, Arquette said: “A lot of it has to do with the way you’re taking things, the way you’re saying things, the way you’re responding to things, the way you’re allowing other, sort of, outside influences affect how you feel about yourself.““I think building confidence or just focusing on yourself, like working out some of the pain and trauma that I had so that I could open up and own sort of what makes me happy, what my needs are, where my boundaries are,” he continued. “But we had a really great thing at the end. I just think a lot of people end up when relationships end and lawyers get involved, they really sort of battle a lot of the time and they end up really fighting and spending a lot of money to lawyers where they should be sort of splitting with each other.“He added, “I just encourage people to truly try to work it out.“S Granitz/WireImageThe twoScreamcostars were married from 1999 to 2013. Despite their separation, Cox and Arquette have managed to forge a friendship whileco-parenting their 18-year-old daughter,Coco.In a 2020 interview withYahoo! Entertainment,Arquette opened up about his “really great relationship” with theCougar Townalum. “We’re friends, and we’ve communicated a lot because of Coco,” he explained.But Arquette admitted that this process hasn’t always been easy, especially when it came to raising Coco in her teenage years.“We’ve just been really open and supportive of each other. We never went head-to-head, [or] battled each other, through the process of divorce and through the process of raising our kid,” he said. “So it’s made for a friendship and relationship that is out of respect.“Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Arquette also shares sonsCharlie West, 9, andAugustus Alexis, 6, with wifeChristina McLarty. Meanwhile, Cox is currently dating Snow Patrol memberJohnny McDaid.
David Arquetteis opening up about navigating differing levels of fame in a Hollywood relationship.
In an appearance on SiriusXM’sAndy Cohen Live, hostAndy Cohenasked theNever Been Kissedactor whether he felt “inferior to” or “less than” ex-wifeCourteney Coxamid the height of herFriendsfame. (Cox, 58, played Monica Geller on the sitcom for 10 seasons, airing between 1994 and 2004.)
“Yeah, absolutely. It’s difficult. … I have some of the traditional male things where I want to like, you know, provide and pick up the check and, you know, be the breadwinner,” Arquette, 51, said.
“In the acting world, in general, you’re always going on this roller coaster of popularity and not able to get a job,” he continued. “So it’s like this weird thing. And then, when you’re comparing yourself to someone who’s at the top of the television iconic world, it’s kind of hard to put yourself there.”
Arquette said the now-exes “definitely” were “learning and dealing with that” throughout their time together. But there was still “a lot of pain and arguments” as well as “ego” early on.
Explaining how the pair navigated the situation, Arquette said: “A lot of it has to do with the way you’re taking things, the way you’re saying things, the way you’re responding to things, the way you’re allowing other, sort of, outside influences affect how you feel about yourself.”
“I think building confidence or just focusing on yourself, like working out some of the pain and trauma that I had so that I could open up and own sort of what makes me happy, what my needs are, where my boundaries are,” he continued. “But we had a really great thing at the end. I just think a lot of people end up when relationships end and lawyers get involved, they really sort of battle a lot of the time and they end up really fighting and spending a lot of money to lawyers where they should be sort of splitting with each other.”
He added, “I just encourage people to truly try to work it out.”
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The twoScreamcostars were married from 1999 to 2013. Despite their separation, Cox and Arquette have managed to forge a friendship whileco-parenting their 18-year-old daughter,Coco.
In a 2020 interview withYahoo! Entertainment,Arquette opened up about his “really great relationship” with theCougar Townalum. “We’re friends, and we’ve communicated a lot because of Coco,” he explained.
But Arquette admitted that this process hasn’t always been easy, especially when it came to raising Coco in her teenage years.
“We’ve just been really open and supportive of each other. We never went head-to-head, [or] battled each other, through the process of divorce and through the process of raising our kid,” he said. “So it’s made for a friendship and relationship that is out of respect.”
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Arquette also shares sonsCharlie West, 9, andAugustus Alexis, 6, with wifeChristina McLarty. Meanwhile, Cox is currently dating Snow Patrol memberJohnny McDaid.
source: people.com
